My Entire Romantic Existence in One Paragraph

So I was watching 'High Fidelity' with John and Joan Cusack and near the end of the movie he said this paragraph and I think it pretty much sums up all the romantic relationships that I've ever had.

'I can see now I never really committed to [insert former girlfriends name here]...I always had one foot out the door and that prevented me from doing a lot of things [that I shoulda done if I was really 'in' the relationship like I shoulda been]...I guess it made more sense to commit to nothing...keep my options open...and that's suicide by tiny, tiny increments.'

i hear lauren hill and the fugees in my head right now, i'm killing myself softly, aren't I?
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